Previously SDSPI host driver would rely on retry count when waiting for
the card to read or write data. This caused different timeout times
depending on CPU frequency and card clock frequency. In practice, card
performance does not depend on these two factors.
This change uses timeout_ms field of sdmmc_command_t introduced
previously for SDMMC host.
Fixes https://esp32.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=3440&p=16037 and similar
issues related to SDSPI timeouts.
